This is going to be a long post again. All words and no picture. So if you don’t like to read/lazy to read/don’t understand English, back off now! Else, don’t ask me to summarize for you later on.

I wasn’t in a very good mood lately… that is why I’m pouring this post out. I can’t stand to have this in my mind anymore.

So… what is so great being with someone? What is so great to have girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? So you can hold each others’ hand? So you can have someone to hug during the nights?

What if the one you trust so much actually cheats on you? What will you do?

I believe many of us knew about the Tiger Woods case, US ex president – Bill Clinton’s scandal.

So, why do guys cheat? I wouldn’t say girls do not cheat. But majority of the scandals start from the guy. Ahem, not being prejudiced, but in fact it is true isn’t it?

Anyway, what is love all about? If you love him/her and want to be with her, why cheat on her? Why want to ruin the trust between you and her? What is so fun to playing two times on your partner? Happier? More challenging? Excited?

But you do know you are playing with fire. You know that playing two times will break your partner’s heart. Yet, you did it. If you don’t want to be with her, just dump her. Why is it so hard?

Oh! You got to secure the other girl’s heart before you can dump your gf? Or mistress is just for fun? Nothing serious. Can dump the mistress anytime. GF is to bring around, showing off to the public? Is that so?

I know a few guys who cheat on the wife/gf. I also know a few girls that cheat on the husband/bf. Not big deal? Just a trend? hmm….

Some reasons given by these cheaters (The most ridiculous on the top list):

1. I cheat cuz my gf is the one “force” me to cheat
>> WTF!!!! Damn it! You want to cheat then you blame your gf? If she is so useless, why still be with her? Broke up with her. Easy. Why cheat on her and yet put the blame on her? Poor girl.

2. I have been in a relationship with my wife so many years before we got married. The parents wanted us to get married. So I did. I don’t have feelings for her anymore. Just responsibility.
>> WTF!!! You don’t love her. Just responsibility. Then why married her? Divorce her you can still take care of her by giving half of your money/property/income to her.

3. I have a stable bf. I just need some excitement.
>> Erm.. I don’t have comment on this. This kind of people should get themselves killed one day. Cuz cheat too much.

4. A single guy who can’t find gf, has to get close to a girl who has a bf.
>> What’s wrong with both of them?! One can’t find girl then has to get his hands on other’s gf? And the gf doesn’t break up with d bf. They still very much in love. So, what is this single guy doing? If you can’t get a better girl, then just wait. Can’t you wait? Why want to be a loser to be the third party? And the girl, so happy enjoying the process. You got bf already. Can’t you be loyal?!

There are more reasons given by guys. Lazy to put it down. You can tell me

Question here: Will you accept your bf/gf/husband/wife back IF you find out he/she cheats on you?

I know most of the wives will accept their husbands back. Mostly because they don’t want to have a broken family where their kids will be affected. Things will be messier when there are kids around.

For me, I will never accept my bf/husband cheats on me. If he cheats once, there will be twice, third, fourth times. Chinese proverb = 一次不忠，百次不容。 Translation: Once a cheater, will never be forgiven. I seriously cannot accept the fact I will have to share my bf;/husband with someone else. No one will. But some girls will accept the bf/husband back after he apologizes. But then, how sincere will he be? Will he really be loyal to me? Will be cheat on me again? I will not trust him fully. So, if there is no more trust between us, why still force ourselves to be together? Divorce him and get half of his $$$$… wakaka!!!

What’s wrong with being single? Why guys can’t stay single for long? Cuz they are human that use the lower part of their body to think? They must have a girl beside them for?

There are still a lot of single girls/guys out there. However, from what I see, most of the girls are not desperate to be attached. They are so happy with their single life. Whereby on the other hand, guys are more desperate to find gf. Sometime when you are too desperate, you couldn’t get what you want. We all know this. Just that we just forget about it.

I’m not trying to side girls. Some girls are desperate also. There is always endless argument on such topic. LOL.

Well.. too many words already. Got to stop here. Tell me what do you think? Crazy me. New Year Eve still post such a sentimental blog. lol.

Happy New Year everyone! Cheers!

I booked this X’Mas eve dinner one month earlier.. lol… so scared no place….never been to Gurney Daorae… been to Bayan Point’s one three times. I can say, I really really like this korean restaurant. The service is very very very good and the food is simply delicious. Only certain one la. not all.

My 4th attempt in Daorae. First, Second, Third. Still love it to the MAXXXX!!!

Reached Daorae Gurney 6.35pm. My booking is 7pm. so…we were early. Got people take care my car.. nice.. and is FOC ler!! niceeeeee… love it!

Since I requested for tatami style.. and it was still early, so we got what we wanted. The table seemed to be very big for the two of us…

But it was just nice when the food arrived..

Anyway, we ordered 2 BBQ – Seasoned Hot & Spicy Chicken & Ginseng Pork.. hmm… the Ginseng Pork was really very nice. Yummy!

Then we also ordered the Kimchi-JJirae soup… damn nice la!!!

The seasoning:

The free side dishes, soup, steamed egg:

And also the nice bbq chicken (Taken by Missy):

Since we were too full and got noting to do.. we thought of taking funny faces pictures… this is Missy’s one:

Mine:

Us:

I love this pic very much:

This was a farewell meal with Missy. Guess I won’t have chance to eat Daorae with her already. *sigh*…. Gona miss her lots.

After dinner, we went to Gurney Drive.. just stayed there a while then headed back home.. old d.. couldn’t stay out late

**This is an iPod Touch. Not iPhone

Got this sweet surprise yesterday. It was really a surprise as it was given by a long lost friend. He contacted me lately and I told him about my blog.I didn’t expect him to read this and I had never expected he would send me this gift:

Wah! My 2009 wish list! Thank you friend. Miss ya lots! Thanks!

Well.. he is just a very very nice friend. Owed me lots of gift over the years that I have known him and he has never given me anything. *angry* He is not my admirer now. I can confirm that..I used to have feelings for him and same goes to him. But thing doesn’t work for us. Erm… he is from Singapore. Long distance relationship doesn’t work for me. So… we didn’t end up together.lol…

Anyway, he kept his promise. I don’t know why he gave me this… but really appreciate it.

So for now, I’m kinda hoping I can get the Sony TX1 camera for my New Year gift. LOL..

Anyway, thanks friend for giving me such a nice gift. Totally appreciate it!

Image source: http://www.celebritywonder.com

I didn’t really have any expectation on this movie, except, it has Jude Law and Robert Downey JR. LOL. I bet everyone went to watch this movie cuz of them.I’m one of them. *wink*

The story line not that interesting. Just normal Sherlock Holmes investigation. The explanation on the investigation also very fast.

What I really like is that Jude Law and Robert Downey JR were two very good actors. You can really feel that they are both very good brothers. They acted it out so naturally and gracefully. Bravo! This is also a very funny movie. The jokes are really funny.

Well, for those who haven’t watch, don’t watch it with expectation. Watch it without expectation will make you feel the movie is nicer. lol.

Synopsis:

After finally catching serial killer and occult “sorcerer” Lord Blackwood, legendary sleuth Sherlock Holmes and his assistant Dr. Watson can close yet another successful case. But when Blackwood mysteriously returns from the grave and resumes his killing spree, Holmes must take up the hunt once again. Contending with his partner’s new fiancée and the dimwitted head of Scotland Yard, the dauntless detective must unravel the clues that will lead him into a twisted web of murder, deceit, and black magic – and the deadly embrace of temptress Irene Adler.

Source here.

hehe… this trip was just a short one.. never thought that we would take almost whole day to eat at Prai… according to plan, we were going to AEON Jusco to shop for CNY clothes.

But.. end up we hang out at Prai for half a day cuz need to wait for “someone’s car to finish up servicing.

Our first stop: lunch at this shop which I-don’t-know-the-name. Famous for their small chicken. I didn’t know this is the place Sher & Swee Heng talked about. I thought “Hmm..never been there. Ok… lets go”. Turned out, I went there with family once. Damn far from Penang Island

Our food (Cost us RM 55 which included one bottle of “leng teh”) :

Us with our tour guide: Swee Heng:

Girls:

After done eating… we went to Pacific shopping… well.. it was like BJ complex.. old and creepy.. it’s been so long since my last visit and I won’t be visiting it again. Damn creepy la!

Finally Swee Heng’s car finished servicing. So we parked our car at AEON Jusco and he drove us to BM for the famous rojak and poh piah.

Erm…. the poh piah was really nice. and cheap. RM 1 for 1 piece. Niceee…. PG Island will cost around RM 1.20 or RM 1.40. Lam lam said Midvalley cost RM 3 per piece. lol.

As for the rojak… so so only. The one I usually went to eat taste much better

Really die d la. kept eating… fat fat d… >.<

When we finally done eating, we headed back to AEON Jusco. Phew. That was like 5pm already. =___=|||

Guess what, I didn’t get anything. Can’t find the shoe that I saw in Singapore. *sigh*.. damn sui la. sad x 2. Should get the shoe when I saw it in Singapore. But that time didn’t really like it

Anyway, Lam got the most stuff. But not CNY clothes. Mostly is stuff for her new house. lol.

Dinner at Food & Tea in AEON Jusco… the food damn lousy la. Soup was like plain water. The tong sui really was sugar syrup. Pizza’s cheese tasted like glue. Damn! You can find Food & Tea shop in Gurney Plaza also. Not sure how is the taste of the food. But AEON Jusco one has a damn cha chef.

Reached home 10.30pm… drop dead tired.. =____=||||

Update: The iPod Touch price should be RM 779 for 8GB. Didn’t see properly

Ok. Another short blog. Really lazy to post long long blog cuz I got 2 long blogs to post. No time photoshop ya.. I’m super busy

Friends have been asking me what I want for X’mas… I really don’t know how to answer them.. seriously.. cuz the things I really want are way to expensive for them to buy for me…may it be birthday presents or X’mas gift.. they are way to expensive .. but it’s alright. I just want to blog it out! *wink*

What I really really want now:

1. Compact camera – Sony TX1

Image source: http://www.sony.com.my

>> Ya ya.. I got a Nikon D60.. but I still want a compact.. cuz you can’t really compare DSLR with compact. Both have different functions and you can bring out at different time. Takan you ask me wear nice nice go dinner with my Nikon D60? Ya… so I really want this. *shy*

>> This Sony TX1 is the latest model of SONY T-series compact camera. It is touch screen and it got auto panorama. Cool man!

P/S: Market price – RM 1499 =___=|||

2. Flashgun for my DSLR

Image source: http://www.nikonusa.com

>> Ok.. this is the next upgrade for my Nikon D60…Don’t think of upgrading my lens yet… I’m just a start up. Don’t really need a new lens yet…

P/S: Market price – RM 800 (Original Nikon), RM 400 (Other brands) =_______=|||||

3. iPod Touch

Image source: http://store.apple.com/my

>> I have always fancied apple stuff.. but it was too expensive for me… that time duped sis into getting an iPod Shuffle 4GB… so happy … tho not mine.. I love the buying and picking up process… lol… it is like my own gift

>> I like this cuz not only I can listen to musics I like, I can also online and watch movies I like as well.. the best thing, the battery won’t run out sooo fast! Yeah! Love it!

P/S: Market price – RM 799 779(8GB),. RM 1199 (32GB) =____________________________=||||||||

I do not expect anyone give me these gift for my X’mas/New year/Chinese New Year/Valentine …. but IF really got such nice person… thank you very much first! but IF no one… also nevermind… hope GOD will give mom kena her lottery… then I can ask her buy for me…kakak…

Seeing that year 2009 is coming to an end soon.. so thought of posting this. This will be a short one. All words again… but short one.

What have I achieved in 2009?

1. Career? – Zero. Non. Elek. Tadak.

2. Happiness? – Not really. Been facing lots of down times. Miss sister a lot. Best friend leaving the company. Seems to be drifted apart from another best friend of 9 yrs. total sadness all the way. >.<

3. Financial? – From worse to worst. Money not enough when getting to year end. Car insurance due next month. CNY coming. *sigh*

4. Love life? – Nothing much to talk. Not meeting the right guy yet. Mom been pressuring all the time. >.<

Seems a loser’s fate to me. Gosh! How can this happen to me?I need to change my fate. Change everything!

Year 2010. I hereby accept your challenge. I will have a better life in 2010. The best of my life ever!

P/S: Got to do it. Die die oso need to die a better life. Else malu saja

Wanted to post this last week… but wasn’t in the mood of doing it..this is going to be a long and all words post… no pic

Kinda sad lately.. as my best friend at work was going to leave the company.. *sigh*…. I knew her for 2 years.. we had been very close cuz of the mutual understanding we have…

But she had had enough task-on-hand that she couldn’t stand it anymore… so she quit…

It is a relief for her… a big one.. as she is going to pursue her dream.. a dream she has with her for so long…

As her best friend, tho it is painful to see her leave.. but I guess she had made the right choice.. the best choice ever in her life. Life has to go on for me, but she is definitely going to create something out for herself, and I know I’m going to be proud of her.

When she told me she is going to quit as she couldn’t stand anymore, all I said was: “Go ahead. If you feel so much pain, then don’t stay anymore. No point staying when you are not happy at all.” And she just did it. Glad she made it. Glad she tendered her resignation.. she will be happier if she leave now. Rather than seeing her in so much pain, and money definitely can’t buy happiness for her, I would accept it with an open heart.

I will not post anything related to her job.. that I will leave it to her. It is her life. It is her story. Whether she is willing to share or not, it is up to her.

Nonetheless, I will be alone.. but just think on how her life will turn out to be, that cheers me up. Anyhow, I still have my Edward Cullen & Jacob Black to accompany me.. lol…

For those who don’t know her, who are you to judge her? Who are you to gossip about her? WHO ARE YOU?

I knew her for 2 years… she is one of the smartest person I have ever known. One is definitely my another best friend – Sherine. Sher doesn’t update her blog that much..and she is always busy =___=||| but that doesn’t affect how I’m proud of her… proud to be her best friend and sister

Ok.. back to Missy… the reason I call her Missy… cuz of her name is SY.. and add a Miss in front… combine became Miss + SY = MisSY… lol…

I salute her courage for coming to Penang alone.. she has been here for 4 years… in the same company, same environment for 4 years.. all alone… gosh! Really salute her…

Oppss… I have been drifted away from why she is the smartest person I have ever known and why we are best friend

Reason:

1. She knows exactly what to do on her job and she has the knowledge on it (but not everyone appreciated that… too bad for her… but I’m sure and I believe there will be one big company that really sees her capability)

2. Even she doesn’t know anything, she doessn’t ask. She find it out herself. What’s Google for if you need to ask?

3. She has this very special sixth sense (we both called it that ) that she knows when the person is lying or does something wrong. So … basically, I can’t lie to her

4. She is a very independent girl. Does everything on her own and tries not to give trouble to others. Although she has a small body structure – which leads people to think that she needs protection, but in fact, she doesn’t need that.

5. She’s been hurt by many idiotic guys (mentally NOT physically) until she can smell when a guy’s going to cheat on the wife/gf. LOL…

6. She is a very cincai person to the one she cares (and I’m the lucky one!) hehe… she always treats me when I’m deadly broke… lol… I’m a big spender… while she is a person who takes good care of her financial

7. She has named me as her fashion consultant … lol… My honour… lol..I wouldn’t say I have the best fashion sense or I know a lot in make up.. but she is worse than me… lol…paiseh.. don’t mean to say that

Can’t think much now… brain freeze… lol… too much to think of… but I just want to say that I’m glad to meet her and be good friend.

Wish her all the best on her future undertakings and hope that I will see her soon!

Cheers mate! You are always the best! Don’t let any obstacle bring you down. muaks!

Today was her last day at work… tomorrow will mark a new chapter of her life!