What is love all about?

This is going to be a long post again. All words and no picture. So if you don’t like to read/lazy to read/don’t understand English, back off now! Else, don’t ask me to summarize for you later on.

I wasn’t in a very good mood lately… that is why I’m pouring this post out. I can’t stand to have this in my mind anymore.

So… what is so great being with someone? What is so great to have girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? So you can hold each others’ hand? So you can have someone to hug during the nights?

What if the one you trust so much actually cheats on you? What will you do?

I believe many of us knew about the Tiger Woods case, US ex president – Bill Clinton’s scandal.

So, why do guys cheat? I wouldn’t say girls do not cheat. But majority of the scandals start from the guy. Ahem, not being prejudiced, but in fact it is true isn’t it?

Anyway, what is love all about? If you love him/her and want to be with her, why cheat on her? Why want to ruin the trust between you and her? What is so fun to playing two times on your partner? Happier? More challenging? Excited?

But you do know you are playing with fire. You know that playing two times will break your partner’s heart. Yet, you did it. If you don’t want to be with her, just dump her. Why is it so hard?

Oh! You got to secure the other girl’s heart before you can dump your gf? Or mistress is just for fun? Nothing serious. Can dump the mistress anytime. GF is to bring around, showing off to the public? Is that so?

I know a few guys who cheat on the wife/gf. I also know a few girls that cheat on the husband/bf. Not big deal? Just a trend? hmm….

Some reasons given by these cheaters (The most ridiculous on the top list):

1. I cheat cuz my gf is the one “force” me to cheat
>> WTF!!!! Damn it! You want to cheat then you blame your gf? If she is so useless, why still be with her? Broke up with her. Easy. Why cheat on her and yet put the blame on her? Poor girl.

2. I have been in a relationship with my wife so many years before we got married. The parents wanted us to get married. So I did. I don’t have feelings for her anymore. Just responsibility.
>> WTF!!! You don’t love her. Just responsibility. Then why married her? Divorce her you can still take care of her by giving half of your money/property/income to her.

3. I have a stable bf. I just need some excitement.
>> Erm.. I don’t have comment on this. This kind of people should get themselves killed one day. Cuz cheat too much.

4. A single guy who can’t find gf, has to get close to a girl who has a bf.
>> What’s wrong with both of them?! One can’t find girl then has to get his hands on other’s gf? And the gf doesn’t break up with d bf. They still very much in love. So, what is this single guy doing? If you can’t get a better girl, then just wait. Can’t you wait? Why want to be a loser to be the third party? And the girl, so happy enjoying the process. You got bf already. Can’t you be loyal?!

There are more reasons given by guys. Lazy to put it down. You can tell me

Question here: Will you accept your bf/gf/husband/wife back IF you find out he/she cheats on you?

I know most of the wives will accept their husbands back. Mostly because they don’t want to have a broken family where their kids will be affected. Things will be messier when there are kids around.

For me, I will never accept my bf/husband cheats on me. If he cheats once, there will be twice, third, fourth times. Chinese proverb = 一次不忠，百次不容。 Translation: Once a cheater, will never be forgiven. I seriously cannot accept the fact I will have to share my bf;/husband with someone else. No one will. But some girls will accept the bf/husband back after he apologizes. But then, how sincere will he be? Will he really be loyal to me? Will be cheat on me again? I will not trust him fully. So, if there is no more trust between us, why still force ourselves to be together? Divorce him and get half of his $$$$… wakaka!!!

What’s wrong with being single? Why guys can’t stay single for long? Cuz they are human that use the lower part of their body to think? They must have a girl beside them for?

There are still a lot of single girls/guys out there. However, from what I see, most of the girls are not desperate to be attached. They are so happy with their single life. Whereby on the other hand, guys are more desperate to find gf. Sometime when you are too desperate, you couldn’t get what you want. We all know this. Just that we just forget about it.

I’m not trying to side girls. Some girls are desperate also. There is always endless argument on such topic. LOL.

Well.. too many words already. Got to stop here. Tell me what do you think? Crazy me. New Year Eve still post such a sentimental blog. lol.

Happy New Year everyone! Cheers!