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Things don’t go as everyone wish

Just a stupid feeling I have now… so don’t continue reading this post if you don’t want to be seen as an idiot :P


A lot of times, what you wish is not what you get… and you cannot force your way to get what you want…


Like:


1. I want to be rich… obviously I can’t force my way to be rich right? A NO here.


2. I want to be slim… erm… can force my way la.. maybe can succeed.. but need determination…A PLUS


3. I want to have Robert Pattinson as my man.. obviously CANNOT oso ma! He is with Kristen Stewart now (According to the paparazzi :P ) A NO!


Anyway… what I want to say today is that… there is no boundaries in love. You can meet your loved one and fall for him/her just instantly… but no1 shall/could stop you from being with that person. Unless you/him/her don’t want it… right?


And definitely, if a relationship doesn’t work out… you also cannot force your way to be together.. things won’t back to normal and sure they will be more argument coming up…


AND if there isn’t any relationship at all, as in both of you are just friends… you have some feel… he/she might has some feel … but after sometime… things might change… You guys don’t hang out anymore… you are wondering why… there is no why… just get the hint and move on… why want to force to be with someone who doesn’t like you? who doesn’t appreciate you?


No one can force into a relationship… you can’t force someone to be with you.. you can’t force someone to marry you (unless you have billions and he/she has no reason to reject)… the most important, you can’t force someone to love you….


So.. don’t force people doing what they don’t want.


The end. :P

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5 comments

1 EinsamSoldat { 03.08.10 at 9:17 PM }

How about this : I want a complete set of Macross collection ? Feasible ? :P I do agree, losing weight requires discipline. I gain back a kilo just 1 week of CNY. My motivation, hate myself being fat and take action :D

2 ~ ivy ~ { 03.09.10 at 7:42 AM }

@EinsamSoldat hahaha… ya ya.. urs is countable.. so is based on your will to get urself in slim mode
:P

3 EinsamSoldat { 03.09.10 at 1:57 PM }

Boss, I am in process of trimming down and fitting up ;) Yes it is all about will power and also see if your parents able to take it if you do not eat the dinner they cook LOL

4 ~ ivy ~ { 03.09.10 at 2:43 PM }

@EinsamSoldat Ahem! Who is the boss here? Ur ranking higher than mine ler :P surely you cannot reject the nicely cooked dinner.. but you can take it in a smaller portion :D

5 EinsamSoldat { 03.10.10 at 1:14 AM }

I’m my mom’s fav son, and u r ur mom’s fav daughter… Same standing hehe :P

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